Valentine’s Day hype blamed for spike in teenage pregnancy, early marriage
By Nora
Lanuza Molde
“They
feel pressured to engage in romantic or sexual activities even if they are
emotionally and physically not ready,” says Alexander A. Makinano, regional
director of the Commission on Population and Development (CPD) in Caraga.
“Valentine’s
Day became more and more commercialized over the years, with gift shops, flower
vendors, hotels, and even condom companies capitalizing on the so-called
“season of love,” Makinano said.
“While
romance itself is not inherently bad, the hyper-commercial nature of the
celebration seemed to pressure couples, especially teens and young adults, into
overt displays of affection and premature physical intimacy,” Makinano
explained.
He
underscored that the glamorized portrayal of sexuality causes adolescents to
rush into intimate relationships, often without fully understanding the
consequences. This results in unintended pregnancies, which can derail young
lives.
As per record from CPD Caraga, teenage pregnancy remains a major concern in the region and nationally. Babies born to very young mothers face higher health risks and complications. Early pregnancy mostly disrupts education and their future.
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| The Philippine Statistics Authority (PSA) continues to provide data on teenage pregnancy. The numbers served as basis for the Commission on Population and Development to strengthen its campaign on this social concern. Photo courtesy of PSA. |
Makinano pointed out that while it is normal for young people to have romantic interests, they need guidance and support in making wise choices. With so much peer pressure and mixed media messages surrounding observances such as Valentine’s Day, adolescents can easily get carried away in the heat of the moment.
As an
alternative to promoting a superficial or overly sensualized concept of love,
Makinano called for more meaningful conversations on relationships, sexuality,
and responsible family planning, especially during adolescence. Parents,
schools, and community organizations have an important role to play.
“Healthy
romantic relationships are built on mutual understanding, respect, and
communication, not gifts, appearances, or physical intimacy alone,” he
emphasized.
Rather than giving in to peer pressure or media hype, young people need empowerment to make informed, thoughtful choices that impact their well-being. The consequences of rushed, unwise decisions can last a lifetime, he said. (NCLM/ PIA-Caraga with a report from CPD-Caraga)
